A good friend of mine is fond of saying, “Western
Civilization was built on private tutoring.” It is true that many of the great
minds over the centuries have been nurtured and trained by personal tutors who
focused on the students’ gifts, engaged them in stimulating conversation, and
provided immediate feedback for optimal learning.
Large numbers of age-segregated students in classrooms is a
recent phenomenon historically. Although it is cost effective and provides
parents a place to put their children for much of the day, it is not the ideal
situation for every child.
I am currently reading the book Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking by
Susan Cain. Although I am extremely extroverted, I am familiar with introverts
in that I am married to one, and I spent eighteen years homeschooling my
introverted daughter. Introverts enjoy working alone for hours on projects that
engage them. One or two friends over for a play date is often preferred to loud
and overwhelming crowds of children that sap their energy.
Many children who struggle at school would benefit from
one-on-one tutoring, away from the distractions and noise of the classroom.
Private tutoring is an expensive option. However, for many children, the
expense is worth the calmer present and brighter future that it brings.
